Sunday 19 June 2016

The One where I tell you about my dad


Dear September,
This is the one where I tell you about my dad...
So I know, this isn't your usual cuddly Father's Day picture but it's one that's honest and reflective of the relationship I have with my dad. My dad and I don't live on the same continent so we don't always get to cuddle or show affection. But that doesn't stop him being the presence and force that he is in my life. I know that I sometimes get swept up and distracted and "busy" with my own life but he is ALWAYS there for me. He ALWAYS has my back no matter what and he lets me know that. My dad is the most patient and the most caring and the most amazing person, he is just an incredible human being. I feel extremely proud and at the same time, extremely privileged to have him in my life. The more I talk to him, the more I realize that there is no way I could have earned a blessing so big. Thank you daddy, for going above and beyond every single day. Thank you for being more than willing to give me your one so that I can have two. I love you daddy, from the bottom of my heart, and I hope I make you extremely proud, especially in moments like this, when you're not looking.
Happy Father's Day 



Thursday 9 June 2016

I should have been a bit more innovative with this title

Dear September,
            This is one I should have been a bit more innovative with the title. Ok, here goes nothing…
            I think I should start by saying that I’ve found that there is never only one way to do anything. It is literally all about using what you have to get what you want. The only limit is your mind.
            I recently started watching a television series called “Switched at Birth”. In a nutshell, it follows the lives of two teenage girls who were switched at birth. What’s more is that one of the girls is completely deaf. I’m sure you are wandering what this detail has to do with creativity and innovation and invention, but relax I promise it does.
            I think the first thing I learned from this show is that something that seems as simple and as intuitive as communication can require innovation and creativity under some circumstances. As I meditate on this fact, I remember a particular episode where there was no speaking; all conversations were had in sign language. What is shocking is that somewhere in the middle of the episode I lost sight of the fact that the characters were not speaking. It didn’t matter that there were not using conventional means to communicate, the message was being delivered regardless.
            Creativity can be defined as the act of turning new and imaginative ideas into reality. Creativity is the ability to think and act in ways that are new and novel. There are two kinds of creativity, innovation and invention. Innovation can be defined as the act or process of introducing new ideas, devices or methods.  Innovation is thinking creatively about something that already exists. It is about improving something that already exists.
 Invention is making, creating or producing something useful for the first time. Do not take intimidation or force people to appreciate your invention either. Invention is different, it is unique, there is nothing to compare it to. There is no criticism possible here, people either like it or they don’t, there is no sitting on the fence. It is different if you haven’t done your research or there are technical lapses in your invention or in your ideas, in such a situation, it can be open to criticism.
Be open to getting inspiration from people through conversations and the relationships you build but do not give other people the power to decide what ideas you pursue. An invention is the finished product of creativity and innovation.
People often shy away from invention and innovation and creativity because they do not believe they have anything to offer but that’s wrong, everyone has something to offer. Do not take the easy way out and do not play the victim when your work is criticised. People often use criticism as an excuse to quit. They often forget that the fact that something has never been done; does not make it impossible. Besides, people get uncomfortable with things that they are not familiar with and that should never be your problem or your responsibility. Your job is to do, END OF STORY. Possessing the willingness to try is already half the battle.
Creativity is the bridge between innovation ad invention, what you have and what you want to achieve. Innovation is coming up with a different method, approach or perspective when it seems like even the “smartest” people are giving up.
What you think is an advantage, may be what is hindering you from getting to where you want to be. When you think you know what you need before you even try, you are likely to be wrong. This kind of mentality can also be an obstacle, it can prevent you from seeing how another way can work out just as well if not better. In the same vein, no one is a victim either, we may not all be given equal opportunity but we are given equal potential and equal magic. Some people just have to dig deeper than others. The power is in the mind not in the hands.
Creativity, innovation and invention are all similar concepts but they are also quite different. Anyone can come up with an idea but it takes courage and perseverance and passion to follow through, especially in the face of obstacles and difficulties and failure and the unknown. It takes a certain kind of resilience to be able to pick up again with the same level of passion and enthusiasm when one plan fails. Innovation is about being open-minded and creativity is about commitment. Once you let go and stop trying to do things the way you think they should be done, you discover magic and light in the most unexpected places.